Deb Sofield, Author at Deb Sofield

Don’t Wait for Extraordinary Opportunities

Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great. A few weeks ago, my show was about if you can’t do great things, do small things in a great way, and, although I thought I was done with that thought, in my mind and in my quiet time, I kept coming back to the BIG idea that anyone can take the steps in the right direction to do what they are called to do. What may seem impossible to others is not impossible for you. If you will, just put forth the effort to make it happen.

If You Can’t Change the People Around You

This has been a week of sadness and joy for me. Let me explain. Within ten days, three people I knew died: one from unexplained causes, one from cancer, and one from Alzheimer’s. Due to my travel schedule, I could only attend one of the funerals, but I know what I saw that day would have been the same at each service. Sitting in the packed church for the service, I was struck by the outpouring of love that left a 500-plus-seat auditorium with only standing room for those who came to support the family and recall their memory of

Suspend Your Disbelief

Suspend Your Disbelief I love poetry, and recently, I re-read the simple yet profound poem by William Wordsworth: “With an eye made quiet by the power of harmony and the deep power of joy, we see into the life of things.” Do you see into the life of things? Or do you allow your mind to stop any exploration into things you know little to nothing about? The reason I ask is that I am curious to see if you are stuck in the pluff mud of life or if you are open to simply suspend your disbelief about the

Difficult Roads Often Lead to Beautiful Destinations

Difficult Roads Often Lead to Beautiful Destinations. Now, I know that today’s thought is probably the last thing on your mind when you’re slogging through hard times. I get it. We’ve all been there, but if you were truthful with yourself, you’d have to admit that, more often than not, when you do come through the storm and land on the other side, it’s usually never as bad as you thought or expected it to be. And if it was a miserable experience, you can count yourself lucky to have survived. The truth is that many times in life, love,

Almost Every Successful Person Begins

Almost every successful person begins with two beliefs: The future can be better than the present, and I have the power to make it so. For the last few weeks, I have been speaking about the idea of Excellence, Commitment, and Action. In fact, I decided to forgo having a guest on this particular show because, as I progressed through the message, I needed more time to talk about how you can choose to make the changes that will change your life. The idea of excellence is rarely talked about because it is hard. It’s easy to be good enough,

The Beginning of Wisdom is Knowing Which Question to Ask

The Beginning of Wisdom is Knowing Which Question to Ask What is the question that you would like an answer to? Is it a question about your life, your family, or your future? And is there someone who can answer those questions for you? I believe that deep inside, most of us pretty well know the answers to all the questions that bubble up in our minds, and yet we choose not to answer them. We fear the answer we don’t like or want. We don’t want to admit that the answer may be something we don’t want to happen

Hey Good Looking

Hey Good Looking When was the last time someone said that to you… I hope today, or at least yesterday, and maybe tomorrow… without a doubt, I know you’re good-looking and intelligent because you listen to my podcast and read my blog posts. But friends, how do you turn those good looks into opportunity? Opportunity to do all the things you dream of, opportunity to be the person you desire to become, opportunity to excel in your field of work or study…believe it or not, it has little to do with your good looks, smarts, and lineage and everything to

If You Can’t Do Great Things, Do Small Things In A Great Way

If You Can’t Do Great Things, Do Small Things In A Great Way I often hear people say to me, “Well, I am not in a position to do (fill in the blank) …,” and I always find it interesting that many people place limits on themselves when, really, no one else on the outside does. It’s all in your mind. You’re choosing not to be your big, bold, beautiful, handsome self, you’re choosing not to live to your full potential, and you’re choosing not to be who you were born to be. Because YOU are choosing to do little

I Quit! Thanks for the Memories

I Quit! Thanks for the Memories Now, before you get too excited, I am not quitting my blog or podcast, but I am going to quit hanging on to memories that cause me regret. I love the quote by Mason Cooley, “Regret For Wasted Time Is More Wasted Time,” and, frankly, my time is limited. I don’t need any more time-consuming, sad memories, so this year I have quit holding on to what I thought would happen in my life, and I’m moving forward… onto what else I can make happen for the rest of my amazing life. I saw

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