Deb Sofield, Author at Deb Sofield

We Have All Been Placed On This Earth

We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own path, and we will never be happy if we live someone else’s idea of life. There is such joy in seeing happiness, contentment, and peace when someone finds their right path, their calling, or their life’s work. There is no greater joy than seeing someone settle gently into the path of their God-given talents, skills, and abilities. Now, there is another side I see: when someone is not following their dream. When they are following someone else’s dream, that makes for a rough road. I’m not saying it’s

Every Positive Change

Every Positive Change People often think that making life changes (large or small) is just too difficult to do, so they procrastinate, and then they take such a long time to finally make a decision that they miss the opportunity when all they really need to do is to take the most basic step, and that is to start. My thought for the day is… Every positive change in your life begins with a clear, unequivocal decision to either do something or stop doing something. I don’t want to be a scold, and frankly, that is not my personality. But

If the Whole World were Blind

If the whole world were blind, how many people would you impress? I travel a lot, and I like to people-watch. I have a little ritual–as I walk through airports, I look at everyone rushing this way and that, and those sitting to make a flight, or eating in the food court, and I think to myself that everyone in there has a mother. They may not have had a father (past the point of conception), but they all have or have had a mother. Then I usually think, my goodness, wouldn’t their mother be disappointed in how mean and

Don’t Give Up Now

“Don’t give up now. Chances are, your best kiss, your hardest laugh, and your greatest days are still yet to come.” If there ever was a time not to give up, it is now. “Why?” You may ask. Because if you give up now, you will never know what might be waiting right around the corner. I know it seems so easy to say and so hard to do, but friends, you just can’t walk away when you are so close to the success of the dreams you’ve been working towards, or the answers you’ve been praying for, or the

Raise Your Words Not Your Voice

Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder. Did you know that most people don’t learn many new words, read many books, or stop and think about why their Public Speaking Skills are essential? This is interesting to me since those are the three things I think about all the time. As a speaker, I am always interested in words, not only for their meaning but also for the interpretations they evoke. How do others hear certain words, and how do they react to the words? And what about those words that have no

The Value of Your Name

I’ll be speaking to a ladies’ Bible study group in a few weeks, and, as I thought about what to cover, I decided to talk about something that has been rolling around in my head for a while: the value of your name and reputation. I liked that topic so much that it is my theme for today. I want to talk about the value of your name and reputation. When people hear your name, what do they think? What comes to mind when someone says your name? Now, for some of you, don’t fall out of your chair because

Everyone has an Invisible Sign

Everyone has an invisible sign hanging from their neck saying, ‘Make me feel important.’ Never forget this message when working with people. ~ Mary Kay Ash There is an age-old phenomenon that is back in full force today, partly due to social media and partly to our busyness in actually seeing those we say we care about. I hate to admit it, but I am guilty of what John Steinbeck said: “I wonder how many people I have looked at all my life and never seen.” It is not on purpose that I have seemingly overlooked others, but I have

It Doesn’t Matter What Others are Doing

It doesn’t matter what others are doing. It matters what YOU are doing. I saw this poster a while back, and it hit me as such an obvious comment that I almost laughed out loud at the simple message. Then, as life would have it, I did a double-take and had to admit that I waste plenty of time wondering, questioning, and thinking about what others are doing with their time and talent when I need to focus on what I should be doing. It’s not like our work is going to get done magically without us. No, we have

Author: Deb Sofield